How To Get What You Want
How To Get What You Want
Life isn't complicated at all. It's the people who makes it complicated. It sure is not going to be easy, you have to work hard for it but its pretty straight forward. You work hard now, you will reap the rewards later.
1.Be clear of what you want
Before you can do anything, knowing what is it that you want is the first step. You have to know what is it that you are looking for.
It shouldn't be like, "I want to buy a villa", "I want a Lamborgini" kind of way. The vision should be detailed and vivid.
The type of work that would make you happy, the type of relationship you want to have, the body you want,etc. Think about the type of work that would make you happy, your goals for having a romantic relationship and why would you want to look a certain way. Once you begin to have a clear vision then you will automatically start thinking about how to get it.
2.Take one step at a time
You want to buy a great mansion or a sports car. You shouldn't go all out get a loan and then buy it. Though buying a sports cars or a house should be your goal but don't make it a priority right away.
If you are jobless right now, you should first look for getting a decent job and start saving up or slowly build your own company.
You just can't be at the top right away, you have to slowly climb your way up the ladder. Hone your skills so that you can get that dream job or build a business stategy so that your business does well keeping in mind your ultimate goal.
3.Create numerous milestones
Don't just limit yourself to one goal. Though it should be your ultimate goal, do create small milestones every 3-4 months so that you can check yourself if you are making a progress or not.
Creating small milestones and accomplishing it helps you to be motivated and will keep you in track. This in turn will help you to climb your way up the stairs.
But if you only yourself to a single goal, you will soon get frustated and give up. Many people give up on what they want in life because they're just focused on the end game.
Everyone wants to be motivated or accomplish something that motivates them to work harder, but if you just set youself one goal you will soon see yourself leaving the game quite early as it will be tough for you to see your progress.
4.Put up a photo where you'll see often
If you want a Ferrari, the latest iphone or that beautiful bungalow put that up as your mobile wallpaper or your desktop background.
You can also print it out and stick it to your refrigerator or in the ceiling above your bed. Just make sure that you'll see it regularly. This acts as a constant reminder for your goal.
This will help you to always focus on your goal and never be off track. Even if you have lost focus for some time, seeing that photo will help you get back on track.
5.Gift yourself occasionally
It is important to be happy and motivate yourself from time to time. Reward yourself by buying yourself a shirt, or a pair of new shoes so that you can get motivated.
Treat yourself for a delicious dinner or go for a holiday trip. Giving gifts to yourself will help to keep you happy throughout your journey to success and makes your journey even more enjoyable.
If you want get everything you want in life, you have to let go of all your old habits. You have to discipline yourself into working more than usual. You have to start waking up early and get to work.
Create a routine and stick to it everyday. You have to be willing to work more and lose all your bad habits if you want to get what you want in life.
Also keep in mind to sleep for 8 hours a day and eat healthy. It's important that you get enough sleep and have a healthy body
Complaining isn't going to change anything. No one is going to feel sorry for you. If you don’t like how something is, change it. No one is going to do the work for you. You have to like where you are in order to get where you're going.
Get comfortable with who you are and work from there.
8.Live as if you have already reached the top
That doesn't mean you go out and spend all of your money right away. Start buying cars and phones. No-No!
Instead see yourself owning a sports car, your dream house and your own million dollar company, change your life style - going to the gym at 6am every morning, and traveling a lot – start doing that now.
Start believing yourself and envision yourself living your dream.
9.Don't let others stop you
People love to judge. They will tell you what you are doing is not right. They will belittle you. They will tell you it can't be done. They will tell you they have tried it before and it won't work.
Don't let that stop you. Don't give up because of him, her or anybody. Just because they couldn't do it, doesn't mean that you can't do it. If the thing you are doing is making you happy, you should go for it.
This is about what you want, not what about what others wants you to have.